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		<title>When you’re unhappy at work …</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jul 2022 21:06:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>… reflect on what your current work situation is preventing you from doing. This thought came to me as I was reading Love + Work by Marcus Buckingham, where he states: “… to live happily and fully, you have to express your loves… You’ve got to get them out somewhere, somehow. Turn them from loves  [...]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">… reflect on what your current work situation is preventing you from doing.</p>
<p>This thought came to me as I was reading <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Love-Work-Find-What-Rest/dp/1647821231/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2HRXJK8W0SE&amp;keywords=love+and+work&amp;qid=1659129125&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=love+and+work%2Cstripbooks%2C298&amp;sr=1-1"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Love + Work</span></a> by Marcus Buckingham, where he states:</p>
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<p>“… to live happily and fully, you have to express your loves… You’ve got to get them out somewhere, somehow. Turn them from loves into actions; from passions into contributions and when you do, your life feels coherent and authentic and you know, you just know, every fiber of your being that you’re on your path. The inverse is also true, though… if you’re prevented from doing it (what you love) then your life starts to feel wrong. During the moments when you start thinking about doing something different because you’re frustrated, angry, concerned, think about what is happening in your current job and what you’re prevented from doing.&#8221; </p>
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<p>For any given job or career, there are times when we feel energized and there are times when we feel like quitting (even though we are in the same job). Often, our immediate response to unhappiness at work is to think about our exit plan. Before going there, take a moment to think about what your organization may be inadvertently stopping you from doing that means a lot to you. That insight may help you find a path forward either in your current role or when you look for your next opportunity. </p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not sure what you love, take the free <a href="https://www.marcusbuckingham.com/gift-of-standout/">Gift of Standout Assessment</a>. </p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Don’t deny what you love and what you’re meant to do because it may just eat you up from the inside.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">&nbsp;</p>
<p><em>Inspired by Love + Work by Marcus Buckingham</em></p>
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		<title>25 Rules for Work and Life from Stephen Schwarzman, CEO of Blackstone</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2020 20:54:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>In What It Takes, Stephen Schwarzman, Chairman, CEO, and Co-Founder of Blackstone, shares the story of his success. Below are his 25 rules for work and life woven throughout the book. It might be a worthwhile exercise for you to reflect on how each of these rules may apply to you. You'll see under each rule,  [...]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In <a href="https://readwhatittakes.com/">What It Takes, </a>Stephen Schwarzman, Chairman, CEO, and Co-Founder of Blackstone, shares the story of his success. Below are his 25 rules for work and life woven throughout the book. It might be a worthwhile exercise for you to reflect on how each of these rules may apply to you. You&#8217;ll see under each rule, the questions I&#8217;m reflecting on to apply these rules. </p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>1. It’s as easy to do something big as it is to do something small, so reach for a fantasy worthy of your pursuit, with rewards commensurate to your effort.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What are you working towards right now in your career? in life? If you achieve what you wanted, what rewards would come your way?</li>
<li>How might you increase the size and scope of the goal you&#8217;re pursuing?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>2. The best executives are made, not born. They never stop learning. Study the people and organizations in your life that have had enormous success. They offer a free course from the real world to help you improve.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Which successful person are you learning from right now? Who has achieved the success you want to achieve?</li>
<li>How can you continue to find high-quality people or resources to further your learning?</li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
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<p><strong>3. Write or call the people you admire, and ask for advice or a meeting. You never know who will be willing to meet with you. You may end up learning something important or form a connection you can leverage for the rest of your life. Meeting people early in life creates an unusual bond.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Who can you reach out to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">today</span> for advice or to connect?</li>
<li>How will you make connecting with others a regular practice?  </li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>4. There is nothing more interesting to people than their own problems. Think about what others are dealing with, and try to come up with ideas to help them. Almost anyone, however senior or important, is receptive to good ideas provided you are thoughtful.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Think about the key people in your professional and personal networks. What problems are they grappling with right now? How might you be able to help them?</li>
<li>Can you reach out to one of these people today to offer your ideas? </li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>5. Every business is a closed, integrated system with a set of distinct but interrelated parts. Great managers understand how each part works on its own and in relation to all the others.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Do you understand every part of your business and how each part connects with each other? (Knowing your business has been advice echoed by <a href="https://www.wharton.upenn.edu/story/12-leadership-lessons-alex-gorsky-ceo-johnson-johnson/">Andrew Gorsky</a>, <a href="https://www.robertchen.com/leadership-insights-from-ken-chenault-former-ceo-of-american-express/">Ken Chenault</a>, and <a href="https://www.wharton.upenn.edu/story/8-insights-leadership-gm-ceo-mary-barra-wharton-people-analytics-conference/">Mary Barra</a>). </li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>6. Information is the most important asset in business. The more you know, the more perspectives you have, and the more likely you are to spot patterns and anomalies before your competition. So always be open to new inputs, whether they are people, experiences, or knowledge.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What new experiences will you participate in to broaden your information base? List 3 specific new inputs for this month, this quarter, and this year.</li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
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<p><strong>7. When you’re young, only take a job that provides you with a steep learning curve and strong training. First jobs are foundational. Don’t take a job just because it seems prestigious.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What new things are you learning from your job right now?</li>
<li>If you&#8217;re not learning anything new, how can you adjust your role to get back to learning?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>8. When presenting yourself, remember that impressions matter. The whole picture has to be right. Others will be watching for all sorts of clues and cues that tell who you are. Be on time. Be authentic. Be prepared</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What are you doing to manage the impressions people have of you? What clues and cues are you giving off to people? If you&#8217;re not sure how to manage this, <a href="https://www.robertchen.com/know-where-you-should-not-be/">this article on personal branding</a> might help.</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>9. No one person, however smart, can solve every problem. But an army of smart people talking openly with one another will.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Who are the smart people you talk to on a regular basis? If you can&#8217;t list anyone, what will you do to find these people? </li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>10. People in a tough spot often focus on their own problems, when the answer usually lies in fixing someone else’s.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Whose problem can you help fix right now based on your skill set and resources?</li>
<li>Can you take action today to fix someone else problem?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>11. Believe in something greater than yourself and your personal needs. It can be your company, your country, or a duty for service. Any challenge you tackle that is inspired by your beliefs and core values will be worth it, regardless of whether you succeed or fail.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What are your beliefs and core values? (<a href="https://www.cmu.edu/career/documents/my-career-path-activities/values-exercise.pdf">This pdf</a> and <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/changepower/201811/6-ways-discover-and-choose-your-core-values">this article</a> might help if you&#8217;re not sure.)</li>
<li>What is the greater cause you&#8217;re striving for?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>12. Never deviate from your sense of right and wrong. Your integrity must be unquestionable. It is easy to do what’s right when you don’t have to write a check or suffer any consequences. It’s harder when you have to give something up. Always do what you say you will, and never mislead anyone for your own advantage.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Over the last 3 months, what situations have tested your integrity? What did you end up doing in those situations?</li>
<li>What investments or sacrifices have you made over the last 12 months because it was the right thing to do?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>13. Be bold. Successful entrepreneurs, managers, and individuals have the confidence and courage to act when the moment seems right. They accept risk when others are cautious and take action when everyone else is frozen, but they do so smartly. This trait is the mark of a leader.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What is the last bold thing you did in the past 6 months? </li>
<li>What are you doing now to help you take quick action when the moment is right?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>14. Never get complacent. Nothing is forever. Whether it is an individual or a business, your competition will defeat you if you are not constantly seeking ways to reinvent and improve yourself. Organizations, especially, are more fragile than you think.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What are the specific things you&#8217;re doing right now to reinvent and improve yourself and your organization? </li>
<li>What are the inputs that have you decide what to improve/reinvent?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>15. Sales rarely get made on the first pitch. Just because you believe in something doesn’t mean everyone else will. You need to be able to sell your vision with conviction over and over again. Most people don’t like change, so you need to be able to convince them why they should accept it. Don&#8217;t be afraid to ask for what you want.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What vision would you like to sell to people?</li>
<li>When was the last time you sold this vision or ask people for what you want? How are you selling that vision right now?</li>
<li>Who is one person you can pitch this week?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>16. If you see a huge, transformative opportunity, don’t worry that no one else is pursuing it. You might be seeing something others don’t. The harder the problem is, the more limited the competition, and the greater the reward for whomever can solve it.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What transformative opportunity do you see?</li>
<li>What is one thing you can do now to capitalize on that opportunity?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>17. Success comes down to rare moments of opportunity. Be open, alert, and ready to seize them. Gather the right people and resources; then commit. If you’re not prepared to apply that kind of effort, either the opportunity isn’t as compelling as you think or you are not the right person to pursue it.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Are you connected to the right people and resources? How can you secure enough &#8220;dry powder&#8221; to take advantage of the opportunities when they come?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>18. Time wounds all deals, sometimes even fatally. Often the longer you wait, the more surprises await you. In tough negotiations especially, keep everyone at the table long enough to reach an agreement.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>If you&#8217;re in an active deal or negotiation right now, what can you do to close the deal so both parties are taken care of?</li>
<li>What might you be doing that needlessly jeopardizes the deal? </li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>19. Don’t lose money!!! Objectively assess the risks of every opportunity.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Do you have a good process to objectively assess risk? </li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>20. Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I think I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What decisions do you have to make right now? </li>
<li>Which ones can you make faster and which ones should you slow down?</li>
<li>What is your decision-making process? (see rule #22)</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>21. Worrying is an active, liberating activity. If channeled appropriately, it allows you to articulate the downside in any situation and drives you to take action to avoid it.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What might be worth worrying about? </li>
<li>Are you <a href="https://www.embracepossibility.com/blog/how-to-worry-in-a-good-way/">worrying in a productive way</a>?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>22. Failure is the best teacher in an organization. Talk about failures openly and objectively. Analyze what went wrong. You will learn new rules for decision making and organizational behavior. If evaluated well, failures have the potential to change the course of any organization and make it more successful in the future.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What was your last failure? What did you learn? (<a href="https://www.embracepossibility.com/blog/mindset-carol-dweck/">Growth mindset book summary</a> might be helpful)</li>
<li>How recent was your last failure?</li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
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<p><strong>23. Hire 10s whenever you can. They are proactive about sensing problems, designing solutions, and taking a business in new directions. They also attract and hire other 10s. You can always build something around a 10.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>How many 10s are you working with right now? </li>
<li>Who are the 10s in your network? </li>
<li>Where can you find 10s in you need to recruit them?</li>
</ul>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>24. Be there for the people you know to be good, even when everyone else is walking away. Anyone can end up in a tough situation. A random act of kindness in someone’s time of need can change the course of a life and create an unexpected friendship or loyalty.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Who can you be kind to right now?</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>25. Everyone has dreams. Do what you can to help others achieve theirs.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What are the dreams of the people close to you? Can you do one thing to move them forward in those dreams? </li>
</ul>
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<p>Take some time and answer the questions for each of these rules. Then take action aligned with your responses. One action I&#8217;ll take to support you in your dreams is to offer you the e-book version of my <a href="https://www.robertchen.com/insert-dream-here/">Dreams to Reality Fieldbook</a> free. Just email me and we&#8217;ll send a copy over to you. </p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>In the Information Age, new articles, videos, and other resources are being created every day and this deluge of content can drown out older resources that have timeless wisdom worth archiving and revisiting. Below is a list of useful resources I often review and send to high performers who want to continually improve themselves: Leading  [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the Information Age, new articles, videos, and other resources are being created every day and this deluge of content can drown out older resources that have timeless wisdom worth archiving and revisiting.</p>
<p>Below is a list of useful resources I often review and send to high performers who want to continually improve themselves:</p>
<h2>Leading People and Organizations</h2>
<ul>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://www.mckinsey.com/business-functions/strategy-and-corporate-finance/our-insights/the-mindsets-and-practices-of-excellent-ceos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Mindsets and practices of the best CEOs</a> (McKinsey &#8211; <a href="https://www.mckinsey.com/~/media/McKinsey/Business%20Functions/Strategy%20and%20Corporate%20Finance/Our%20Insights/The%20mindsets%20and%20practices%20of%20excellent%20CEOs/The-mindsets-and-practices-of-excellent-CEOs-vF.ashx">pdf version</a>)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://hbr.org/2004/06/what-makes-an-effective-executive">What makes an effective executive</a> (Harvard Business Review)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://rework.withgoogle.com/guides/managers-develop-and-support-managers/steps/review-googles-new-manager-training/">Google&#8217;s new manager training</a> (facilitator guide, slides, and workbook)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://www.bcg.com/bcg-henderson-institute/strategy-traps/default.html">An atlas of strategy traps</a> (Boston Consulting Group)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://hbr.org/2004/01/what-makes-a-leader">What makes a leader</a> (Harvard Business Review &#8211; <a href="http://precisionmi.com/materials/leadershipmat/whatmakesaleader.pdf">pdf version</a>)</h3>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h2>Communicating Effectively</h2>
<ul>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HAnw168huqA">Think fast, talk smart</a> (video &#8211; Stanford Graduate School of Business)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://www.fastcompany.com/3052599/the-top-3-reasons-introverts-dont-speak-up-in-meetings">Three strategies for introverts to speak up in meetings</a> (Fast Company)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://leanin.org/education/managing-difficult-conversations">How to have difficult conversations and stay true to yourself</a> (Lean In &#8211; <a href="https://cdn-media.leanin.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Difficult_Conversations_RD4.pdf">guide</a>)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://www.sec.gov/pdf/handbook.pdf">A plain English handbook</a> (pdf &#8211; Securities and Exchange Commission)</h3>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h2>Managing Your Career</h2>
<ul>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://waitbutwhy.com/2018/04/picking-career.html">How to pick a career (that actually fits you)</a> (Wait but Why)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=10+practical+tips+to+manage+up&amp;rlz=1C1GCEU_enUS821US821&amp;oq=10+practical+tips+to+manage+up&amp;aqs=chrome..69i57j33.4607j1j7&amp;sourceid=chrome&amp;ie=UTF-8">Top 10 practical tips for managing up</a> (LinkedIn)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://www.fastcompany.com/28905/brand-called-you">The brand called You</a> (Fast Company)</h3>
</li>
<li>
<h3><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2014/06/01/opinion/sunday/why-you-hate-work.html">Why you hate work</a> (NY Times)</h3>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h2>Mastering Yourself</h2>
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<li>
<h3><a href="https://hbr.org/2005/01/managing-oneself">Managing oneself</a> (Harvard Business Review &#8211; <a href="https://signallake.com/innovation/managing_oneself.pdf">summary</a>)</h3>
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<h3><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/guides/year-of-living-better/how-to-build-muscle-strength">How to get strong</a> (NY Times)</h3>
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<h3><a href="https://waitbutwhy.com/2013/10/why-procrastinators-procrastinate.html">Why procrastinators procrastinate</a> (Wait but Why)</h3>
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<h3><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/guides/smarterliving/how-to-find-a-hobby">How to find a hobby</a> (NY Times)</h3>
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<p>If you want to go beyond articles and dive deeper into any one of these topics, check out <a href="http://www.robertchen.com/recommendations/">Robert&#8217;s book recommendations</a>. If you know of other highly practical resources that you reference frequently, feel free to send them to us or share them in the comments section.</p>
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		<title>Take responsibility for tomorrow today</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Dec 2019 18:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>What are you putting off today that you may regret tomorrow? Exercise for your future health? Continuous learning for your future career moves? Time spent with your loved ones for your future relationships?   "You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today. - Abraham Lincoln, American President</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What are you putting off today that you may regret tomorrow?</p>
<p>Exercise for your future health? Continuous learning for your future career moves? Time spent with your loved ones for your future relationships?</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em>&#8220;You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: right;">&#8211; Abraham Lincoln, American President</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Dec 2019 15:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>At the second annual CXO Masterclass hosted by the Ascend Executive Network (AEN), corporate board directors and executive recruiters shared their insights for rising to C-suite and board director roles. If you're aspiring to join the C-suite and beyond, the tips below may help: Speak effectively about your work All candidates considered for senior-level roles  [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the second annual CXO Masterclass hosted by the Ascend Executive Network (AEN), corporate board directors and executive recruiters shared their insights for rising to C-suite and board director roles.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re aspiring to join the C-suite and beyond, the tips below may help:</p>
<h2><strong>Speak effectively about your work</strong></h2>
<p>All candidates considered for senior-level roles are qualified. The biggest differentiator is your ability to effectively communicate the work you&#8217;re doing. You want to <strong>educate others about your accomplishments in a memorable and likable way</strong>.  Learn to be a spokesperson for the amazing work you’ve done and share the lessons learned that can help others in the organization. Avoid the trap of focusing only on the pursuit and execution of your goals without communicating the results you’re achieving.</p>
<p>Executive recruiters can’t extract the complexity of what you’ve done from your resume without your narration. Recruiters for senior-level positions expect a healthy list of impactful accomplishments. On-time and on-budget are no longer enough. What grabs their attention is the candidate who can go beyond WHAT they accomplished and articulate HOW they accomplished it.</p>
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<li>Can you clearly demonstrate your ability to bring people along with you?</li>
<li>Did your relationships deepen after the assignment or did people want to lean away from you?</li>
<li>How did you drive transformation and what was the specific business impact?</li>
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<h2><strong>Get personal</strong></h2>
<p>One of the board directors at the session mentioned that she was passed up for a C-suite level role because her board didn&#8217;t &#8220;know her&#8221;. She recognized that she only talked about business with the board and skipped the relational stuff, worrying that the board directors were too senior for small talk. Since then, she&#8217;s made the time to <strong>connect more personally</strong> with these important decision-makers and not only did she make it to the top job at her firm, she&#8217;s now an independent director on several public and private boards.</p>
<h2><strong>Stay connected and be helpful</strong></h2>
<p>If you are shooting for a C-suite role, what are you doing to <strong>get relevant face time with individuals who are exposed to high-level opportunities</strong>? To get in front of key decision-makers, find time to reconnect with senior-level contacts in your industry, grab lunch with executive recruiters, or join a non-profit board. Once you do connect, deepen your impression by finding ways to authentically help the people around you. Sponsors and mentors are also critical. If you don&#8217;t have any, that&#8217;s a warning sign. According to one executive, if you want others to advocate for you, first, they must like you. Then they must believe you generate good ideas. And lastly, they must believe you can execute.</p>
<h2><strong>Take the high-visibility assignments</strong></h2>
<p>To get noticed in your organization, work on projects and initiatives that matter. This will probably mean taking a risk that&#8217;s outside your comfort zone. Figure out what is keeping your executives up at night and volunteer to help solve their problem. Remember that for senior-level projects<strong>, you can&#8217;t win by yourself since the scope of your projects will likely be enterprise-wide</strong>. You&#8217;ll need to work with others to succeed and build a track record of delivering results. What are you doing now to build up your influence structure to succeed across your organization?</p>
<h2><strong>Understand and assimilate key trends</strong></h2>
<p>In the past, recruiters were looking for leaders who were decisive and could make tough calls. Now, they are also looking for softer skills &#8211; the ability to relate to the workforce and think about diversity, to name a few. As an aspiring leader, you should <strong>focus on the business impact of prevailing trends</strong>. How will artificial intelligence change the profit and loss equation? How do you think through your investments around cybersecurity? How do you leverage international assignments to add value to your company? How does diversity impact your organization?</p>
<h2><strong>Focus on Employability as opposed to Employment</strong></h2>
<p>When you&#8217;re assessing professional opportunities, think about the skills you need to enhance your employability. Don&#8217;t get hung up on a particular function, job track, or title. Leverage your current role to improve how you add value and leave the role better than when you found it. Find ways to build core business skills, connect with key stakeholders, and raise your public profile. You want your boss to know that you&#8217;re agile and an asset to any employer. Summed up memorably by one of our senior speakers,</p>
<p><em>&#8220;I love you and the organization. But please <strong>don&#8217;t confuse that with needing you and the organization.</strong>&#8221; </em></p>
<h2><strong>Play politics well</strong></h2>
<p>In most companies, politics exist because you have limited resources and competing motivations. At the most senior levels, this dynamic is supercharged because ambitions are bigger, and all the players are good at getting what they want. <strong>If you&#8217;re not willing to play politics, you&#8217;ll be a victim of politics</strong>. Learn to read the people around you. Are they looking out for themselves or looking out for the organization? What makes them tick?</p>
<p>One board director recalled the importance of asserting yourself without making others look bad. She recounted a time when someone was claiming credit for her work and instead of calling it out, she found it very effective to play dumb. Instead of, &#8220;<em>Why are you taking credit for my work?</em>&#8220;, she said, &#8220;<em>I heard this was represented in this way. Is there anything I can clarify to help you move forward with your goals?</em>&#8221; The other person got the message.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Rising to the pinnacle of your organization is not easy but if you can speak effectively about your work, build authentic relationships, and help others achieve their goals, you&#8217;ll have a good shot.</p>
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		<title>Words of Wisdom from Indra Nooyi, former CEO of Pepsi, at the Ascend National Convention</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2019 06:37:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>It was great to hear Indra Nooyi, former CEO of Pepsi, share how she succeeded in her career at the Ascend National Convention in DC. Ascend is the largest, national non-profit organization focused on developing and promoting Pan-Asian leaders. Indra mentioned that as a minority (woman and Indian) employee, her work is often discounted. She  [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was great to hear Indra Nooyi, former CEO of Pepsi, share how she succeeded in her career at the <a href="https://www.ascendleadership.org/page/Conferences">Ascend National Convention</a> in DC. <a href="https://www.ascendleadership.org/">Ascend</a> is the largest, national non-profit organization focused on developing and promoting Pan-Asian leaders.</p>
<p>Indra mentioned that as a minority (woman and Indian) employee, her work is often discounted. She was able to get to parity by showcasing her competence and being more prepared than anyone else. This need to perform above and beyond just to be considered was echoed by <a href="http://www.robertchen.com/rise-to-the-executive-suite-sol-trujillo/">Sol Trujillo</a>, former CEO of Telstra, US West, and Orange.</p>
<p>In addition to being competent, Dr. Nooyi offers the following career advice:</p>
<h2><em><strong>&#8220;Invest in communication skills&#8221;</strong></em></h2>
<p>As she reflects on the success factors for her career, she emphasized that &#8220;packaging is important&#8221;. Being able to navigate a difficult problem and meeting and to influence stakeholders to be on board with your ideas are core leadership skills. Confidence is perceived as competence and if you want to be taken seriously, you need to communicate impactfully.</p>
<p><em>How are you honing your communication skills? What does your packaging say about you?</em></p>
<h2><em><strong>&#8220;Put your hand up for the most difficult assignments &#8230;&#8221;</strong></em></h2>
<p><em><strong>&#8220;&#8230; and deliver on it.</strong>&#8220;</em> You&#8217;re not going to get the right visibility by fixing easy situations. If you want to get noticed, make positive things happen in challenging areas. Just make sure you&#8217;re ready to tackle these tough assignments (see Indra&#8217;s point about being competent). Failing to turnaround a bad situation will not help you establish a strong reputation.</p>
<p><em>What is the most difficult task facing your firm right now? How can you ready yourself to be a part of the solution?</em></p>
<h2><strong><em>&#8220;Embrace life-long learning&#8221;</em></strong></h2>
<p>In the past, firms trained the front lines and briefed senior management. With major shifts in technology and business, senior management must stay ahead of their competitors by constantly learning and using that knowledge to develop better strategies. Firms are now training their executives so they can brief their teams. Change management is becoming the norm and it&#8217;s forcing all leaders to &#8220;read more and question more&#8221;.</p>
<p><em>What was the last thing you learned? How are you staying informed of new technologies in your industry?</em></p>
<p>During this talk, Indra emphasized how her Asian values and support system contributed to her success.  She recounted how her mother would help her at home and on occasion, her mother would give feedback to her during a business call about how she&#8217;s handling the call. Despite having every right to ignore her, Indra would acquiesce and follow her mother&#8217;s guidance as a sign of respect. She recognized that if she wanted her parents&#8217; support, she needed to play her role as well.</p>
<p>This story taught me two important lessons: <strong>Leverage your heritage as a strength and be kind to your parents (especially when it&#8217;s not easy to do so)</strong>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jul 2019 13:48:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>If you're a high-performer looking to rise into the C-suite, you might find Sol Trujillo's, former CEO of Telstra, US West, and Orange, leadership reflections useful. Sol was the youngest officer in AT&amp;T history and the first native-born Latino to serve as CEO of a Fortune 200 company. He shares the following insights with Carla  [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;re a high-performer looking to rise into the C-suite, you might find Sol Trujillo&#8217;s, former CEO of Telstra, US West, and Orange, leadership reflections useful. Sol was the youngest officer in AT&amp;T history and the first native-born Latino to serve as CEO of a Fortune 200 company. He shares the following insights with Carla Harris, Vice Chairman of Morgan Stanley, at the 4th Annual Senior Multicultural Leadership Conference hosted by Morgan Stanley in New York City.</p>
<h2>Speak your mind when it adds value</h2>
<p>Sol credits his meteoric rise to his brashness and courage to speak his mind. Early in his career, he spoke up about a product&#8217;s lack of effectiveness at an executive committee meeting. This got him noticed by the chairman who put him in charge of fixing the problem. He encourages anyone who has an idea that adds value to the company to <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/three-practical-strategies-introverts-speak-up-meetings-robert-chen/">speak up</a> and to share those thoughts. When asked how he mustered the courage to do that, he said, &#8220;<em>I didn&#8217;t know any better</em>&#8220;. To help you decide when to speak up, ask yourself, <strong>&#8220;Is there something important that should be said that&#8217;s not being said right now?&#8221;</strong></p>
<h2>Look at everything and learn constantly</h2>
<p>Sol cautions that if you do speak your mind, make sure you know what you&#8217;re talking about. He strongly believes that amassing knowledge is key to being successful. Whether it&#8217;s reading books and journals, listening to key experts, or studying with an institution, find ways to get up to speed on your business. The more knowledgeable you are, the better off you&#8217;ll be. This echoes advice from both <a href="https://www.wharton.upenn.edu/story/12-leadership-lessons-alex-gorsky-ceo-johnson-johnson/">Alex Gorsky</a>, CEO of J&amp;J, and <a href="https://www.wharton.upenn.edu/story/8-insights-leadership-gm-ceo-mary-barra-wharton-people-analytics-conference/">Mary Barra</a>, CEO of GM. Looking into everything doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re going to get into the details every time, it means being adept at navigating a conversation at 50,000 feet and at 50 feet when needed.</p>
<h2>Understand the rules of the game</h2>
<p>Sol recognized early on that the rules of the game in business were not created for a Latino. Although he would be justified to be mad at the unfairness of the system, he knew that would be counterproductive. He understood that for him to win, he&#8217;ll need to be 5 to 10 times better than his peers. He also wanted to stay committed to his family so instead of going for rounds of golf, he threw himself into working hard on the business and<strong> spent his energy getting better as opposed to wishing the world around him was different</strong>.</p>
<h2>Get good feedback</h2>
<p>&#8220;<strong><em>Feedback is really good if you take it and learn from it</em></strong>&#8221; &#8211; Sol emphasized this point as one of the core factors for how he has been able to sustain his success. As he was rising in his career, he received feedback on his brashness and was able to learn how to get people to perform without the harshness he was using to communicate his expectations. What feedback are you getting from others? What <a href="http://www.robertchen.com/give-yourself-feedback/">feedback can you give to yourself</a>?</p>
<h2>Innovate to grow and compete</h2>
<p>When <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/ken-chenaults-5-insights-leadership-robert-chen/">Ken Chenault</a>, former CEO of American Express, spoke at this same conference last year, he said, &#8220;<em>if you&#8217;re not moving, you&#8217;re falling back.</em>&#8221; Sol had a similar message where he stresses that every leader must consider two D&#8217;s &#8211; Digital and Diversity. He talked about the importance to adapt to new technologies and set up a team that allows you to diagnose a problem from different perspectives. <strong>To get buy-in for innovation, you must show conviction, passion, and knowledge about the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Why</span> and clear thinking about the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">What</span>. </strong></p>
<p>What impressed me most about Sol was his courage to stand up for what is right. During his CEO role at Telstra, he faced a number of racist encounters around his Mexican heritage. When his wife asked him why he doesn&#8217;t just quit and pursue easier opportunities, he said it&#8217;s exactly because of these incidents that he could not quit and didn&#8217;t want to allow such ignorance to scare him off.</p>
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<p style="text-align: right;">Photo from <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/SMLC19?src=hash&amp;lang=en">Morgan Stanley Senior Multicultural Conference #SMLC19</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2018 20:28:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>If you want to keep performing better than others, then you'll have to prepare and train better than others. What are you willing to do now that others are not willing to do? These actions and sacrifices will be what separates you from them in the future.   "Today I will do what others won't  [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you want to keep performing better than others, then you&#8217;ll have to prepare and train better than others.</p>
<p>What are you willing to do now that others are not willing to do? These actions and sacrifices will be what separates you from them in the future.</p>
<blockquote><p>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>&#8220;Today I will do what others won&#8217;t so tomorrow I can do what others can&#8217;t.”</em></p>
<p style="text-align: right;">&#8211; Jerry Rice, American Football All Star</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>When we think about leadership, it's usually in a professional context. We focus on how we lead our organizations, departments, and teams but rarely put any thought into how we lead other areas of our life. How are we doing in our family life? our community? our own health and well-being? Are we leading these  [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we think about leadership, it&#8217;s usually in a professional context. We focus on how we lead our organizations, departments, and teams but rarely put any thought into how we lead other areas of our life. How are we doing in our family life? our community? our own health and well-being? Are we leading these areas or are we just going with the flow hoping things will turn out ok? Why don&#8217;t we lead these other areas of our life?</p>
<p>These were the questions I asked myself during Professor Stew Friedman&#8217;s <a href="http://www.totalleadership.org/">Total Leadership program</a> at Wharton. What attracted me to take this course was Stew&#8217;s concept that work-life balance doesn&#8217;t work because it implies having to make trade-offs. Instead of managing life as slices of a pie that gets smaller or bigger at the expense of each other, his alternative was to consider different areas of your life as independent circles that can potentially overlap with each other.</p>
<p>This new construct helped me unlock the creativity to better optimize my life and it has <em>transformed</em> the way I live and work.</p>
<p>Before this course, I felt at the whim of my goals and the needs of my stakeholders. I felt forced to make tradeoffs in one area of my life because of the demands of another area and instead of leading my life, it was leading me. The process I learned in this live workshop with peer coaching helped me gain control over the important areas of my life. You&#8217;ll see below five insights that might be helpful to you as you think about leading all areas of your life:</p>
<h2>Lead Your Life: Don&#8217;t Use One Area of Your Life to Make Excuses for Another Area</h2>
<p>Before this program, I would often feel guilty that I did not get home early enough to spend time with my kids. I would use work as my excuse and rationalize that now is the time to focus on my career and once I&#8217;ve &#8220;made it&#8221;, I can carve out more time for family. Along the same vein, I would use my two young sons as the excuse for not exercising. I would tell myself, &#8220;How can I afford to work out if I don&#8217;t even have enough time to spend with my kids?&#8221; Then I would use the time I needed for work, school, family, and exercise to justify why I slept on average only five hours each night.</p>
<p>I found myself often saying how much I wanted to do these things but explaining how I couldn&#8217;t because of the many legitimate excuses that I had. Looking back, that was a weak way of living. This experience has taught me to <strong>either do what I say is important to do or stop saying it&#8217;s important to me</strong>. Either way is fine but continuing to make excuses is not.</p>
<p>As part of this course, we all conducted personal experiments. For my experiments, I committed to getting 7+ hours of sleep, getting home before 7pm during most of the work week, and exercising daily, which included running 2x a week. I was initially skeptical since I&#8217;ve had so many false starts trying to implement similar positive habits but I&#8217;m excited to share that so far I&#8217;ve not only sustained these habits but I just completed my first half-marathon after never running a race in the past.</p>
<p>What made the difference this time was clarifying the vision I wanted for my life and taking control to bring that vision to life. Essentially, leading myself to where I wanted to go.</p>
<h2>Sleep Really Matters</h2>
<p>I was lucky to choose <span style="background-color: #f6d5d9;">sleeping 7+ hours </span>as one of my experiments because there was no habit change that yielded faster and more drastic results than <a href="https://www.embracepossibility.com/blog/how-to-sleep-your-way-to-success/">getting 7+ hours of sleep</a>. I used to subscribe to the &#8220;you can sleep when you retire&#8221; and &#8220;I&#8217;m successful because I work harder and longer than everyone else&#8221; mantra. I&#8217;m beginning to see the fault in this thinking and realizing that I may have spun my wheels more often than I am aware of or care to admit.</p>
<p>After consistently getting 7+ hours of sleep, I noticed my mood becoming more positive and relaxed. What surprised me the most was that I immediately stopped craving coffee (I was drinking about 2-3 cups a day for the last few years).</p>
<p>I also <strong>found sleeping sufficiently a linchpin habit</strong>. The days when I was well rested, I almost always completed every other habit change along with my work and school goal for that day. It allowed me to exercise more self-control and <a href="https://www.embracepossibility.com/blog/how-to-be-more-disciplined/">discipline</a>.</p>
<h2>Create Constraints to Force Creativity</h2>
<p>Forcing myself to get home early, sleep enough hours, and exercise daily meant taking time away from other areas of my life, especially work. Initially, I was worried I wouldn&#8217;t get my work done leading to adverse consequences. What I found instead was the <strong>most important work was still getting done and since my deadlines were tighter, I became more effective with my time</strong>. Having less time for work began to prevent me from over-engineering my work and school projects.</p>
<p>It also helped me to be more creative about my time. Instead of agreeing to drinks or dinner with a client, I would offer to meet for breakfast or lunch so I can keep my commitment to get home early. I started running and working out with other people as a great way to catch up with them. Interestingly, by creating constraints and forcing myself to keep these new habits, the quality of my life has increased at home and at work.</p>
<h2>Be the Building Block for Other People&#8217;s Goals</h2>
<p>One of the key exercises in the Total Leadership process was to set up conversations with the most important stakeholders in the different areas of your life. The goal is to ask your stakeholders about their expectations for you and how you&#8217;re doing in meeting those expectations.</p>
<p>Holding these conversations, I realized that I often see people around me as building blocks to my success and drive our interactions in the direction of my agenda and accomplishing my goals. Hearing people&#8217;s expectations of me have made me realize that other people have their own needs and aspirations and to create long-term, positive relationships with them, <strong>I need to be the building block for their goals and success</strong>.</p>
<p>If you want people to see you as a leader, they first have to recognize that their life will be better because they follow you. There is no better way to do that than to become a critical part in their quest for success and meaning.</p>
<h2>Grow the Relationships You Take for Granted</h2>
<p>Every year I have clear goals to improve and to grow my career. It seems like the natural thing to do. What&#8217;s interesting is when I reflect on my closest relationships, I don&#8217;t have the same aspirational tendency. I don&#8217;t think about growing these relationships and at best, the relationship stays where it is. The only time I pay attention is when the relationship gets strained and I spend just enough energy to get it back to the original level.</p>
<p>Applying the same growth mentality from my career to my personal relationships, I asked my wife, family, and others close to me what we needed to do to take our relationship to the next level. Just by having these conversations, my key relationships are beginning to thrive and grow and it&#8217;s having a positive impact on other areas of my life. <strong>When you ask people about their needs and truly listen, they often become open to sincerely understanding your needs</strong>. Another benefit to this exercise is it allows you to decide which relationships may not be worth investing in because the <a href="https://www.embracepossibility.com/blog/outgrowing-things/">other person doesn&#8217;t want to engage.</a></p>
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<p>To start this journey, craft the vision for your life and clarify your values. You choose the life you want to have and the key idea is to align your actions to bringing to life your vision. Stay attuned to how you&#8217;re tracking to your vision and continue iterating with experiments to find overlap in the different circles of your life.</p>
<p>If you would like to dive in deeper, check out Stew&#8217;s <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Total-Leadership-Better-Leader-Preface/dp/1625274386/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1540177246&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=total+leadership&amp;dpID=41Kp2iIMYXL&amp;preST=_SY291_BO1,204,203,200_QL40_&amp;dpSrc=srch">Total Leadership</a> book, which outlines the exercises in his process. You can also take the <a href="https://www.coursera.org/learn/leading-the-life-you-want">Coursera version</a> of the course.</p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@brookelark">Brooke Lark</a></em></p>
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		<title>5 Practical Leadership Insights from Ken Chenault, former CEO of American Express</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2018 01:10:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>It was a real treat to hear Ken Chenault, former CEO of American Express, share his leadership insights with Carla Harris, Vice Chairman of Morgan Stanley, at the 3rd Annual Senior Multicultural Leadership Conference hosted by Morgan Stanley in New York City. His practical and authentic lessons show why Ken is one of the most  [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was a real treat to hear Ken Chenault, former CEO of American Express, share his leadership insights with Carla Harris, Vice Chairman of Morgan Stanley, at the 3rd Annual Senior Multicultural Leadership Conference hosted by Morgan Stanley in New York City.</p>
<p>His practical and authentic lessons show why Ken is one of the most successful and respected CEOs of our time. As you read his insights below, you&#8217;ll see that he really means it when he says, “<em>It is a privilege, not an entitlement, to lead.</em>” An excellent reminder for anyone who leads or aspires to lead their organization.</p>
<h2><strong>Be Compassionate <u>and</u> Decisive</strong></h2>
<p>Great leaders understand that it’s important to take care of their people and stay accountable to the business when they make decisions. Leaders sometimes shy away from compassion because they confuse it with being indecisive or unable to make tough decisions. Ken showed his ability to balance these two qualities as he recounted the tough decision he made to lay off 15,000 employees after the economic downturn.</p>
<p>He believes that in these tough situations, people don’t deserve what’s happening to them but the circumstances demand it. In these critical moments, it’s up to leaders to show that they care and to take care of their people. Despite having to make this difficult but necessary business decision, Ken displayed compassion by devoting resources to help displaced employees find new jobs and opportunities. He held his executive team responsible for employee engagement and tied their compensation to an employee satisfaction survey sent to both existing employees and those who were let go. His actions during this time were given high ratings by both these groups. Ken reminded all of us that leaders who fail to take care of the business and its people will <strong>lose their privilege to lead</strong>.</p>
<h2><strong>Constantly challenge the status quo</strong></h2>
<p>“<em>If you’re not moving, you’re falling back</em>”. Ken stressed the importance of being innovative and striving to become the company that will put your current company out of business. He argued that it is not just about managing competitive threats, it’s about understanding what customers want and to focus the firm on better serving those needs. His litmus test for whether a leader or company is serious about innovation &#8211; look at the organization’s actions and the size of their R&amp;D investments.</p>
<h2><strong>Know and run your business well</strong></h2>
<p><em>“Stay liquid, be profitable, and selectively invest in growth.”</em> This fundamental lesson has come up in talks from both <a href="https://www.wharton.upenn.edu/story/12-leadership-lessons-alex-gorsky-ceo-johnson-johnson/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">Alex Gorsky</a>, CEO of Johnson and Johnson, and <a href="https://www.wharton.upenn.edu/story/8-insights-leadership-gm-ceo-mary-barra-wharton-people-analytics-conference/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">Mary Barra</a>, CEO of GM. It&#8217;s worth paying attention to and as a leader, Ken believes that it is your job to think through the consequences of your decisions. As echoed in billionaire investor Ray Dalio’s <a href="https://www.principles.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">Principles</a>, you want to have a strong sense of your reality and go beyond 1st order consequences. The ability to look at the 2nd and 3rd order impact of your decisions will help you better lead your organization and yourself.</p>
<h2><strong>Strive to be a better leader, not to be CEO  </strong></h2>
<p>Ken never aspired to be CEO when he first agreed to work for American Express until he was approached with the possibility later in his career. He just focused on adding value to the company. If you are great at what you do and ambitious, you are probably on the fast track to the top. Once you recognize that, it is easy to play it safe and be more calculated and self-focused in your approach. Avoid this tendency. Don’t be a “<em>maintainer</em>” – keep taking risks and focus on helping the company and those around you succeed.</p>
<p>It is hard to get 1) the top spot if you’re just managing what already exists and 2) people to follow you if they feel like your actions are just about you and forwarding your agenda. No one cares <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/3-ways-stand-out-high-performer-robert-chen/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">if you get promoted unless it helps them achieve their goals</a>.</p>
<h2><strong>Place a high premium on integrity and trust</strong></h2>
<p>Ken values these two qualities above many others because they are the basis for forming your reputation inside and outside your company. Periodically ask yourself,</p>
<p>“<strong><em>How consistent are my words and actions?</em></strong>”</p>
<p>Your answer to this question will tell you whether you are leading your life or your life is leading you. Ken ends his talk by emphasizing that all leaders should clarify their values and know their priorities. What do you live for? What’s the inspiring vision you have for your life?</p>
<p>Ken’s vision for himself is to “<em>be successful as a person who stands for something</em>”. <strong>What’s yours?</strong></p>
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